FireyMadness said:
Also tell me: why do you hate me? I can't imagine you saying any good reason, but anyways I need to hear it, right now!
Probably because:
a) You use so much incorrect grammar and spelling that it's sometimes quite difficult to understand you. You always say things like "It's a forum; it doesn't matter if you use correct English," which is not true. Yes, this is a forum, and yes, the standards for correct use of language on most forums (MiraiGamer included) are significantly lower than in other venues, but this does not mean you should go around constantly using txt/1337 speak and "Internet grammar" especially when it interferes with people's ability to understand you. Seriously, sometimes I have to read through your posts 3 or 4 times before I understand what they mean because the English is so bad. It's okay to use a little bit of not-technically-correct language here and there as a means of conveying a mood or connotation, since, on the Internet, you don't have the luxury of non-verbal communication such as "tone of voice" or "body language". Just do it in moderation, and don't do it just for the sake of doing it.
b) You get angry way too easily. When somebody insults you or doesn't do what you want, raging at them just makes the situation worse.
c) Your posts consistently show a lack of thought. People would take you much more seriously if you made an effort to think before you type and reread your posts before posting them, especially if the topic is somewhat serious (in a silly and/or spam topic this doesn't really matter).
Now, I can't speak for cultr1 or the rest of the community, but I, for one, don't hate you. I've frequently been very annoyed by you, but that's not the same as hating you. I believe that you are a good person at heart, and that, despite the fact that you have done some pretty stupid/childish/annoying things during your time at MiraiGamer, you can change. Indeed, it seems that this is really your only option, since you've made it quite clear that no amount of bans or "goodbyes" will keep you away from MiraiGamer, and you'll just keep coming back. If you don't want people to hate you, and you want people to take you seriously,
please give what I'm saying some serious thought. People's attitudes toward you aren't going to change overnight. Even if you start being nice, putting serious thought into your posts, and using correct English, there will still be many people who will continue to flame you and not take you seriously. Don't retaliate at them, because, if you do, that will just further convince them that you don't deserve their respect. Just be patient, and if you continue to show that you can be nice and thoughtful when you choose to be, then eventually people will come to take you seriously and forgive you (some more quickly than others).
Please think about what I've said and take it to heart. I really just want to help you.
Also, for the record, while these comments were directed at Merlinoboy, the forums would be a much better place, if
everyone followed those a, b, and c guidelines I mentioned (especially c; most active members of the forums don't have a problem with a and b so much). Heck, there are even
some people who I would say almost the exact same thing to that I've just said to Merlinoboy
yes, Ryuuoutan, I'm looking at you.
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