A lot of what you said about some mods being more popular just because of their creators is true, SuperJaws, but you have to remember that a lot of the users you named have been where you are now. Nobody took Aar seriously when he joined. He was mocked a lot for something he did at the beginning of his tenure here, but eventually he became an established user and people stopped talking about his early mistakes. BLink's mods are very well-known these days, but would it surprise you if I told you that there was a period of time where not many people cared about his work and he got chastised a ton during his first several months here? Would it surprise you if I told you that I myself was chastised a ton when I was new? It also took a long time for my fourth ending to gain popularity- it wasn't an instant hit. There were many days where I was growing rather restless because my mod wasn't getting very much attention. Even one of my recent projects, Plus Porter, didn't get a ton of attention at first. Even now, I still feel like it didn't get much attention.
Also, being an "established user" here is not as grand as you might think. Really what happens is that the users who joined before you get tired of picking on you. Maybe by the time you've been here for a year-and-a-half, they might respect you a little bit more than they used to, because maybe they've beaten you enough for doing things that annoy them for you to figure out how to be yourself without raising controversy, but for the most part they see you the same as they did before. I get along okay these days with most of the users who joined before I did, but every once in a while, one of them will say something like "please don't be another HaydenStudios." Then newer users come in, see you as an established user, and that's all they've ever known you for being. They didn't know you when you were a new user, so the idea doesn't occur to them that you used to get lambasted by the community. Over time, these newer users outnumber the users who joined before you, and they all start assuming that you're one of the bigwigs around.
TL;DR
Basically what I'm saying is that the problem you're facing right now is something that most users here have faced, and really the closest thing there is to a solution is to just keep pressing on. Also, some users here might be a bit more established than others, but it's hasty to assume that they're all held in super high esteem by everyone.