Not really much of a secret but I have somewhat of an unhealthy obsession with identity
Anyone who's ever shown up on IRC under an unknown name or refuses to give any piece of information about themselves would know this
I've been keeping it under control pretty well recently tho so that's good!
Also I have a terrible fear of offending people I care about. I swear, every other time I say something on here, someone takes it offensively. My day gets ruined every time someone I care about calls me an asshole or takes offense to what I've said when I'm legitimately trying to be kind and helpful, because more often than not it's someone whose opinion I care about, which is anyone I respect. And only a select few of the members here do not have my respect, in particular, the ones that seem to have a seething hatred for me (which is totally my fault and I regret it every time they say something bad about me) which as I just said is only a couple of you. I'm really a nice guy but either I am very bad at wording things or everyone just has this idea that I'm an asshole and read my posts under the assumption that I am one. I really hope it's the first one, but ugghh.
Hmm... perhaps this should go in the negativity thread...