You don't realize anything, you just believe you do.
If you guys could resist the urge to bash anyone who makes you upset, then maybe this entire forum would be a nicer place.
As you can see on my profile, talking to Ryuu without insulting her every 10 seconds results in an actual conversation.
When you guys learn that getting and having respect means that you must give it first, then maybe, just maybe, you'll understand too.
Until then, I'll be here.